Friday, September 29, 2017

How A Postpartum Doula Will Soon Save Your Day (Cape Not Included)

There’s a reason they say it takes a village. Because as a new parent – it really does.
Photo Credit: Klose Up Photography

Being a new parent isn’t easy, that’s been pretty well established. In fact, if you talk to any new parent, they will likely not hesitate to tell you that as AMAZING as it is to bring a new baby into the world and into your life, navigating through those first few days and months is anything BUT easy! Even the most experienced parents struggle with figuring out how to juggle it all: the sleeping, the feeding, the diaper changing, soothing, swaddling, the shushing, (lots and lots of shushing), oh, and wait: I also have to tend to my partner, too? It can seem almost impossible to keep it all together, no matter how many times you watch those viral videos of dads cooing their babies to sleep or double tap on those #motherhoodunplugged Instamom photos. 

So, what is the answer? Is there an answer; a solution? Or are we just left to dwell in the mucky, murky somewhat glistening waters of new parenthood? 

Ok, ok, perhaps we’re sounding a bit dramatic here, but the truth is, as rewarding and surreal as this baby adventure is, it can make you feel down right nuts!!! Before motherhood, many of us started each day in control, accomplished a million things easily, and had good energy levels (probably encouraged by loads of caffeine). Nearly every move throughout the day – we dictated. As a new parent … well, a lot of that changes. 

On top of that, the problem many families face is that even when they succumb to the idea of seeking out help, especially those first few weeks and months, finding that help can be a challenge. As Dr. Harvey Karp, founder of “Happiest Baby on The Block” and creator of the SNOO Smart Sleeper®, often points out, “We used to live in an age where our parents, or close family members were our neighbors, we had that village. But that’s just not the case anymore.” Most families in today’s societies do not live near their immediate family members, nor do they feel comfortable reaching out to their neighbors to ask for help, and friends, well even many of those have families of their own that are struggling to “keep it all together.” So where does this leave us modern day millennial mamas? Well, it leaves us feeling defeated, frustrated, tired, guilty, and often, sadly enough, even clinically depressed.

So again, we ask, what is the answer? What are your options? Do you want the good news or bad news first?
Photo Credit: Klose Up Photography

Let’s start with the bad news. Here’s the deal, YOU. CAN’T. DO. IT. ALONE! Let’s rephrase can, in fact, we know  most humans are capable of AMAZING feats, and MAMA’s, you are especially known to exhibit some serious super human powers,  but at what price; your mental health, your physical health, your child’s health, your relationship?

The good news? There are options, there are resources… and they’re pretty much a click away. As we mentioned above, we know that every day, all around the world, millions of mothers are taking phenomenal care of their newborn babies all on their own. We admire, commend, respect, and are truly inspired by them. But, if you live in the Los Angeles, or Orange Country area, we want you to know you have options, you have resources and we promise you, there is no better investment as a new parent, than the one you will make when you hire a postpartum doula

If in between the hormonal tears and the lack of sleep, you realize that your new baby isn’t going to just easily integrate into your existing life and your expectations of balancing it all – because you’re awesome – have fallen short, it’s ok to ask for help! Here at The Pump Station & Nurtury, we have an amazing team of postpartum doulas just waiting to meet you and pass along their knowledge and baby expertise. We’re here to lean on- to guide, educate & empower you so you can experience a new level of internal joy with your precious bundle. I mean, if you don’t believe us, just check out this screen shot from one of our doula’s daily logs.

And that’s just one day! Imagine the comfort of knowing that a trained professional who truly cares for the wellbeing of you AND your baby is available to help you day and night, as you begin your parenting journey? Can you feel the stress just dissipating away? 

Moms, look, you are still able to leap tall buildings in a single bound. But you don’t need to prove you’re a superhero to ANYONE! That perfect mom you see sashaying down the lane with her quiet, beautiful baby just cooing away in her pricey pram … she isn’t doing it alone. She’s got a village behind her. And chances are, she’s leaning on a doula to help prop her up. 

Click here to see just some of the resources and wisdom our amazing doula team can bestow upon you.

Wednesday, September 6, 2017

10 Reasons for your Baby to do "Tummy Time"

By Marilee Hartling, RN, MFT
Did you know that Pediatricians and physical therapists are concerned that babies are spending too much time on their backs when they are awake? Parents are encouraged to get their babies to spend at least 30 minutes a day on their tummies while they are awake. We call this "Tummy Time". Parents sometimes forget how important it is to have their infants spend time on their tummies!  However, it's often difficult to get babies to play in this position. Babies generally resist "Tummy Time" and may protest loudly when parents turn them over. Babies who have not been put on their tummies from the very beginning may experience this as an unfamiliar position and babies don't particularly like positions that are unfamiliar.

 The Top Ten Reasons for your Baby 
to do "Tummy Time"

l. "Tummy Time" gets babies off of their backs and provides a break for the posterior occipital area (back of the head). This lessens the chance that your baby will develop positional plagiocephaly (a flat or asymmetrical head), which might require helmet therapy.

2. "Tummy Time" lessens the chance that your baby will develop acquired torticollis which involves neck muscle shortening when a baby's head maintains primarily one position. Sometimes babies may need some physical therapy for a while to correct this condition.

3. "Tummy Time" promotes the development of strong head and neck muscles by allowing your baby the chance to hold his head up against gravity. This paves the way for your baby to push up, roll over, sit up, and crawl later. "Tummy Time" is related to faster achievement of these developmental milestones.

4. "Tummy Time" is great for stretching and giving the abdominal organs a sort of "massage" which then stimulates normal bowel functioning and can help to eliminate baby gas.

5. "Tummy Time" enhances posture and coordination.

6. "Tummy Time" helps to develop your baby's visual system including tracking.
As your baby lifts his head while on his tummy he looks to both sides. This helps the coordination of 2 eyes together as he follows movement and looks for interesting toys positioned in front of him.

7. "Tummy Time" helps to develop your baby's throat and mouth area muscles as your baby looks up and moves his head. These are some of the muscles needed for speech and language development later.

8. "Tummy Time" reduces any tightness in the head and neck muscles. For your baby's brain and nervous system to function at their best the head and neck muscles need to be as free as possible from tightness.

9. "Tummy Time" helps babies to develop both near and far vision. We call this "visual organization" which begins while they are on their tummies. "Visual organization" is especially important later on when your baby grows and finally goes to school. He will need this organization as his eyes switch back and forth from blackboard to desk.

10. "Tummy Time" simply promotes good health and prevents problems related to motor development and learning later. Prevention of problems is always better and easier than trying to fix problems after they happen.

Learn how to get your baby to LOVE "Tummy Time".  We will give you ideas and activities you can utilize at home, some of which we will actually practice during the workshop, to make sure your baby gets enough "Tummy Time" throughout the day. Our "Tummy Time" activities are enjoyable for both babies and parents. You and your baby will have fun! For more information about "Tummy Time” or to ask questions about the content in this blog, contact: 
Marilee Hartling, RN, MFT at (323) 655-5580 or visit

Thursday, August 10, 2017

Join a Mommy & Me Group and get 20% off...

by Jill Campbell, PsyD, Mommy & Me curriculum Director at The Pump Station & Nurtury®
  1. This class is a great way to bond with your baby and learn about all things related to your baby’s development such as how your baby matures emotionally, cognitively, socially and physically. We incorporate songs and developmental play into every class.
  2. We’ve all heard the expression that it takes a village to raise a child. The Pump Station & Nurtury’s Mommy & Me Program is the place where you come to grow your village of support. Here you will meet other women with babies the same age as yours. Being a new mom can be very isolating, but when you become part of our mommy & me community, you are sharing this experience with other new moms. We have created a safe haven where you will not feel judged. Many women develop life long friendships in these classes.
  3. You will learn practical and useful information on topics such as infant sleep, language development, renegotiating your relationship with your partner, introducing solids, empathic limit setting, and so much more! 
  4. Based on a mindful parenting philosophy, we teach new moms how to be attuned to their child’s inner world. We will support you in learning how to trust your intuition and parent in a way that honors your authentic self. Women gain confidence and trust in themselves in this new role of being a parent.
  5. Our mommy and me facilitators are all trained licensed therapists with backgrounds in child development.
For more information on our Mommy & Me/Parent & Me Groups email or visit the following resource links below.

Sunday, July 30, 2017

Mother’s confusions: The diaper question

Diapers were definitely one of the questions I've never considered before my pregnancy. Pregnancy is a new chapter for every woman, an opportunity to see herself in a different role, to embrace new experiences. Still, new blessings usually bring new challenges and this is part of the learning journey.

I am now 7 months into my pregnancy and can't wait to have this baby! However, I haven't thought about the diapers until a few weeks ago, when I started reading a parent's guide book. Learning more has already changed my mind on a few preconceived ideas, one of them being diapering.

I have always imagined that we would “simply buy a package of disposable diapers” and dispose of them after use just like I see so many other parents do. But that was before I learned about the real-honest-truth about disposable diapers.
Here is what I've learnt:
  • I will use 6000 disposable diapers during the first 24 months for my baby
  • I will spend a little fortune buying those weekly. Literally throwing money into the landfill.
  • It's approximatively 1 ton of diaper trash only just for my child (not counting diaper genie bag, trip to the store to refill etc…)
  • It will take around 500 years for diapers to decompose.
  • The term “Diaper rash” started appearing when disposable diapers came into the market.
  • My baby will most likely potty train later as it will not establish a connection of wetness when he pees. The disposable diaper tends to always make him/her feel instantly dry.
  • Disposable diapers do not contain blow outs.
  • and there is so much more...

Each person must find their own answers. Mine is cloth diapers. And I mean the whole cloth diapering system. Here we don’t have services for washing dirty diapers, so I’ll have to do it myself, but it does not look very complicated. If it turns out to be too difficult, I can always change my plan, but I’m sure of one thing -  that this is the right decision. When I made up my mind about using cloth diapers, I was curious to hear about my friends and other families' cloth diapering experiences.

The final result is that disposable diapers are simply bad news... I speak of it now, because the aggressive marketing of convenience bears huge costs on our environment. Disposable diapers are very expensive. We've counted on spending that money, but what if that is not a necessary expense? What if there is a healthier, eco friendlier and cheaper option? I started asking more questions about diapers than I've ever imagined I would. I suppose there isn’t a universal solution for everyone.

I talked with a few women from a previous generation to see their perspective on diapering. I talked to my mother, my mother-in-law, my aunt and my granny. Neither of them saw anything wrong with washing diapers, they pointed out how practical they are to get the job done, how quickly it is to wash and to dry them and you never run out of them. They all wished they had the choice of the quality of modern cloth diapers. I guess cloth diapers it is then.  After this personal research, I’m putting the diapers on a long list of subjects I changed my mind about. Cloth diapers are a traditional choice, not as popular as it should be, but clearly a very important choice.

I bought a few brands to try and I Love some brands better than others. Each parent can find their favorite design. I’ll do my best to make it work with my baby.

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Tuesday, May 30, 2017

Pool and Water Safety with Olympic Coach

Dave Kelsheimer, Team USA & Team Santa Monica swim coach offers up some tips to keep your kids safe near and in the water.

Laurie Lawrence’s Kids Alive™ - Do the Five
1) Fence the Pool
2) Shut the Gate
3) Teach Your Kids to Swim
4) Supervise - Watch Your Mate
5) Learn how to Resuscitate

Friday, May 19, 2017

Top 5 Reasons to Seek Breastfeeding Help

Producing milk is natural; the art of latching a baby to the breast is learned. Sometimes what is supposed to come easily doesn’t, and sometimes a breastfeeding problem occurs after discharge from the hospital. The following are situations in which lactation professionals would be very helpful.

1. We turn OUCH! into AHHH! Breastfeeding shouldn’t hurt!  If you’re struggling with a painful latch, engorgement, or just need a some breastfeeding TLC, let us help! Our moms have found that one hour with us is a breastfeeding game changer!

2. We're committed to helping you meet your breastfeeding goals. The breastfeeding journey is unique for each parent. We have experience assisting breastfeeding families with twins, low milk supply, adoptive and surrogate families. To us, "breastfeeding success" means fostering fulfilling and healthy emotional relationships in families.

3. Our Consultants have decades of experience supporting new moms. Did you know that IBCLC’s undergo rigorous academic and hands’ on medical training in order to become certified? Plus, all of our LC’s at The Pump Station & Nurtury® are registered nurses, and a few of us even have advanced degrees! Our breastfeeding expertise is grounded in decades of medical research.

4. We provide pre-natal and post-natal breastfeeding service, support and education. We offer evidence based, unconditional support…for all families!

5. Our Consultants have more clinical experience as most served as nurses in the maternal child health field. 

Other reasons we recommend you see a Lactation Consultant:
-Your baby does not latch onto your breasts or latch on is difficult
-You have sore, cracked, painful nipples
-You breasts are severely heavier/fuller (engorged) and the baby is now struggling to latch
-Your breasts are not heavier/fuller (engorged) by day 5
-You are concerned that your baby is not receiving enough milk
  o Your baby isn’t urinating 6 times a day by day 6
  o Your baby isn’t having at least 3 yellow, runny stools in 24 hours by day 6 o Your baby is very sleepy and not waking for feeds
  o Your baby cries all the time
  o Your baby hasn’t regained birth weight at two weeks
-Your baby was born 37 weeks of gestation or earlier
-Your baby was in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU)
-Mother and baby were separated at birth due to infant or maternal complications
-You had a previous difficult breastfeeding experience
-You have had breast surgery
-You need reassurance that you are doing it “right”

What other reasons prompted you to see a breastfeeding consultant? Share them here in the comments below! 

Our Consultants can see you in our stores or in the privacy of your own home. Meet our Lactation Team here

Monday, May 1, 2017

How To Stop A Mombie Attack! (Aka 7 Key Tips To Help Your Baby Sleep Better)

by Jill Campbell, Psy.D.

Sleep is a very important subject for new parents because we know that good sleep is not only essential to your baby's growth and development, but the whole family's well being. The key points listed below are designed to help you put good sleep habits into practice so that as your baby grows and develops, he or she will have the tools for healthy sleep.

  1. Between the ages of six-eight weeks and four months is the best time to start to establish good sleep habits that will eventually teach your baby to sleep through the night.
  2. Many babies make the transition to sleep easier if they have "positive sleep associations" with them at bedtime. For younger babies, white noise or soothing sounds, swaddling, and/or finding their fingers or thumb to suck will help them self-soothe and fall asleep. For older babies, in addition to those things, comfort can be found in a transitional object. Examples include a very small blanket (often called a lovey), a piece of mom's t-shirt, or a small stuffed animal. Incorporating a comfort object into your baby's bedtime routine can help your baby fall asleep on his/her own, and sleep through the night.
  3. Begin to try to put baby down drowsy but awake. You can do this best by separating feeding and sleeping. Have a small, calming activity in-between the two (i.e. a little massage, a song). Put your baby down in his/her crib while he/she is still awake (it is okay is he/she is drowsy). This way your baby learns that he/she does not need to be nursing (or have a bottle) to fall asleep. 
  4. Babies thrive on routines and schedules. Create a bedtime routine for your baby (i.e. a bath,pajamas, feeding, massage, song, or storybook, bed) and try to put your baby to bed at the same time every night. Make sure to do the bedtime routine in the same room in which your baby is going to be sleeping. 
  5. Have the bedroom environment be consistent at bedtime and throughout the night. Black-out curtains often help babies to take longer naps. Don't over stimulate baby. If you need to feed or change your baby during the night, keep the lights low and your interactions to a minimum. 
  6. If baby awakens during the night, listen to the crying. If crying is strong, go in and soothe your baby. If crying is weak and intermittent, see if you can wait a couple of minutes to see if baby puts himself back to sleep. This type of crying may indicate that your baby may not be fully awake and is adjusting to a different stage of sleep. 
  7. Try to remain calm. Your baby will take his/her cue from you. If you feel comfortable with the sleep routine you have established, your baby will too.
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  • Has room temperature indicator to let you know if the room is too hot or too cold
  • Feeding diary feature
  • Easily portable


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  • Good sound quality
  • Continuous play option
  • Many sounds to pick from and mix

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  • Smaller than the original Sleep Sheep
  • Attaches to car seat or stroller
  • Great for naps that are on the go
  • Can also remove sound box if needed
  • Comes in a Sheep version as well

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  • Great as a transitional object because it is soft, breathable and small
  • Baby's often like to suck or chew on the head of the animal
  • Moms can keep it close to their chest so it has mom's scent
  • Easy to wash

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  • Great traditional swaddle blanket. Lightweight muslin cotton.
  • I like that you can chose if you want baby's elbows to be in a slightly bent position.
  • I like that you can transition baby out of swaddle when ready: one arm out, then two, then off.
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  • Better for younger babies because of its stretch.
  • Many moms have told me that they like this swaddle because it is very easy to put baby into and baby cannot break out of it.
  • Baby can have a little bit of arm movement and allows hands to be in the natural fetal position on the chest rather than at the baby's side.
  • Easy to change diaper
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  • Arms can be free. When baby rolls over there's no need to worry about blankets falling on his/her face 
  • Great for a lighter sleep sack. Lightweight muslin fabric for warmer weather